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post 18 Aug 2005, 07:37 PM
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Ladies should not date

shy/sweet guys cauz they are/might be pshchos

not-out-of-the-ordinary men cauz they 're dull

(shy)^-1 guys cauz they are egoists and rude



Who shoud they trust/date?


Ladies should trust themselves in dating. Never the date, especially first dates. It would be unwise to disregard there feelings (instincts) towards the person they are dating, and most of all dangerous, regardless of how the date came about. She should also be truthful but still guarded, regardless of how the date is going.

Who they should date? It is totally up to the individual, but the lady should trust herself enough to only put herself in a date situation when there is something that appeals to them. The appealing I am refering to can be anything .. expressions, thoughts, physical appearance, tones, movements, ideas, confidence, conversations ... this is all and individuals preference.
It is selfish and a waste of time for the lady and the date, to pursue it further at the time the date was attempting to be arranged.

Now if for some reason say .... she was lead to believe an untruth about the date by the date ... or was willing to take a chance with a friends recommendation ... or was flattered and took a risk ... and find themselves in uncomfortable date situations, a lady will adjust and attempt to be gracious and in most cases open to the hope that their uncomfortable feelings about the date will be swept away. And in many cases this does happen, however in this forum it was asked for the most disasterous and that is what was expressed. A comfort level can only be pushed so far especially one constantly fed with negativity, lies, accusations, smothering, fright, danger, etc ...

There is not a person in this world that cannot have some sort of negative
label put on them by someone somewhere. There are ccomplex's, syndrome's, narcissicism, negative expressions and everyone reacts to these labels differently. Peoples views can sometimes agree with the negative labels but the importance place on the label is once again up to the individuals preference. Negative labels are sometimes very appealing, if not the infamous "bad boys" of the world, would not be sought after constantly or the "disturbed and dangerous" would not have there band of groupies.

So to answer the question ladies and I will include men here too, should date those that spark an appeal in their minds (not hearts, cherish that for the trusted) and trust and act accordingly to there own inner comfort feelings (instincts). Exception: If just looking for fun or play, be charming, straight up, safe and honest, once again we are animals and quite a few of us bow to our drives from time to time, even when we do not have a mate we call our own.


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post 18 Aug 2005, 08:55 PM
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i can see our boys puzzled right now after your post ... they asked for it !


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post 18 Aug 2005, 09:50 PM
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QUOTE(Sabbattack @ 18 Aug 2005, 05:30 PM)
Oh, i forgot...Never date white knights in shining armor...They might have superiority complexes or "the hero syndrome".
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HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA
God that was hilarious!!!!!

Ha ha ha you made me laugh after a very hard day!
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post 19 Aug 2005, 08:41 AM
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Sorry, if I misled you with my experience. Of coursse I agree with you the upmost.
I just said don't trust (I should have said "so easy") not not to date and the "might be" so there are exeptions. I tend to believe that everyone has that "special something" that can make you overcome other things.
Don't forget that our decision are bases. as well, to each one's experiences among other things.
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post 19 Aug 2005, 09:05 AM
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it is ok PENNY nice to hear everybody 's stories ... this is a story board, not a philosophy or psychology corner


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post 19 Aug 2005, 09:23 AM
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Thanks Nick!
You know me better, the other s just got to know me, so I don't need to be misanderstood, you know!
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post 19 Aug 2005, 07:15 PM
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don't worry; misunderstandings happen all the time, even in real life and with people that we know each other for years, not in bulletin boards with users that hardly know each other...

we get by that, anyway !


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post 24 Aug 2005, 02:25 PM
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Yes nick im misunderstood 90% of the day so I just laugh and say whatever..


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post 24 Aug 2005, 03:02 PM
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Yes i'm almost always misunderstood too because of my accent!! default.tongue.gif default.tongue.gif default.tongue.gif


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post 25 Aug 2005, 03:33 PM
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I love accents I think they are so sexy...


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post 25 Aug 2005, 08:41 PM
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Depends on the accent I think...Asian accents do not make me all hot and bothered, but you put and Australian or Italian or something in front of me and I will melt on the spot plus.smilie3.gif

Disasterous Date:
I went to a frat party *college campus party, like "Old School"(forgive the explanation, but apparently I talk strange, no one understands me...go figuere) anyway, we go there, and I was only 16 at the time, and my date was handing me drink after drink after drink, and drinking the same as well, his friends were handing me shots nonstop. Well last I see him, he is heading towards the bathroom. And leaves me alone with all of these people *I didn't know ANYONE there, I barely knew my date *my stupidity...yes*. Anyway, next thing I know, I wake up and I'm lying on a pool table *billiards* wearing a t-shirt I have never seen and a pair of sweat pants that werent mine, all the rest of my clothes were missing..*bra, dress, panties,* even my shoes. I can feel that bad things happened, but I have NO clue, I still dont. I found my "date" passed out on the bathroom floor, hugging the toilet like it was a teddy bear. So I grabbed the nearest half full beer mug *they were everyone, the place was trashed* poured it on his head, and while he was choking and sputtering awake, I called him an asshole, and told him to never call me again, and I walked out, called my nearest friend *and alibi for the night* to come and get me and told her not to ask questions, and I never spoke to him again.


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post 26 Aug 2005, 12:21 AM
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does this still trouble you ? what happened during black out ?


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post 26 Aug 2005, 12:29 AM
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Nope it doesn't. I resigned to the fact that shit happens *especially if I'm not smart about it* and I heard through the grapevine what was supposed to have been done. *shrug* nothing I can do about it now.

Anyway, lets hear another one about you Nick? Muhahahaha


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post 26 Aug 2005, 09:52 AM
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ALL dates are disastrous.......
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post 26 Aug 2005, 11:50 AM
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Well, that's what this section is about, perhaps you could make a new one with non disastrous dates, those exist as well you know!!! plus.smilie3.gif
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